If you deeply understand what I’m going to say next, your life will be limitless. It is the key to happiness and achieving your goals. Let me start by asking you this question: “When you see yourself in the mirror, what do you see? Your physical self?”
Now let me ask you another question. Let’s see through that physical image. What do you see now?
Do you see someone who’s confident or do you see someone who’s not confident? Do you see someone who’s positive or very negative? How you see yourself is through your mind and that’s what is called ‘self-image’.
Now let me ask you another question. “When someone sees you in that image, what do they see? Do they like you or don’t like you? Do they think they want to be around you or not?” Again, your self-image is the interpretation of what other people’s reaction is towards you.
Now let me ask you this question! What kind of self-image would you like your kids; your partner; your spouse; yourself to have? How would you like it to be; especially your kids?
If you have young kids who are growing up; how would you like them to be? Would you like them to see themselves as confident; positive or something else?”
How Do You Get That Self-Image?
Now why is self-image so important? Before I go into ‘Why’, let me tell you a little bit about ‘How’ you got that self-image! Our self-image is built based on our past experiences, our success, our failure and the environment we’re around!
Have you observed when sometimes you don’t want to hang around with certain people because they change the way you think? That’s how your self-image is built!
Again how would you like your kids to see themselves? Do you think it’s important how they see themselves?
Why is self-image so important?
You see the way you see yourself in your mind, the self-image you have in your mind about yourself, you cannot outgrow yourself. If you see yourself as someone who’s a millionaire; you will make a million. If you see yourself as someone who’s just making ten thousand a month you’ll be exactly that!
So, again, ask yourself this question! Which level do I want my kids to see me at? The choice is yours!
How To Improve Their Self-Image:
You can actually help your kids to change their self image and really learn what’s best for them! There’s a great book called “Psycho-Cybernetics” which I would highly recommend you to get and have a read! It’s a very transformational book that I’ve actually read myself; which I practice myself and I share this with my kids as well! Comment below what you’ve learnt from it after you’ve read it!
CONCLUSION
So, this is how you can change your Self-Image to achieve goals faster. Just remember, how you see yourself and what you think about yourself matters a lot!
Now I want to leave you with one thought! Self-image!!! What does that mean to you and your kids? What would you like them to see themselves as? Would you like them to grow with a great self-image? If yes, comment below!
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Dev Sethi is the Founder & CEO of ‘Wealth On Command’. Dev is a Global Sales Award Winner and “Closer of the Year 2019” in High Ticket Sales across 150 countries. He is the 1st person across Australia, Asia, Africa, Europe and South America to ever win this award.
He empowers business owners and entrepreneurs to monetize their skills and maximize their sales by assisting them in building a high performance sales team. In the last 12 months alone his business has grown by over 560% and his clients have made over USD 5.2 Million in Sales. Dev is a Sales Champion and is now creating more Champions.
He speaks 4 languages fluently and is a loving father and a caring husband; born in Thailand, grew up in India and now living in Sydney, Australia.
